Neurodiverse Couples Counselling | ADHD, Autism & Relationship Support in NSW
You are resilient and capable
At Counselling Solution, Robin and Adrian Schep regularly support neurodiverse couples across New South Wales. We work with couples where one or both partners are autistic, have ADHD, or identify as neurodivergent, as well as couples where one partner is neurotypical.
Every relationship is unique. Differences in communication, emotional expression, sensory experiences, executive functioning, and processing can sometimes leave partners feeling misunderstood, disconnected, or alone. These challenges are not signs that your relationship is failing—they often reflect different ways of experiencing and responding to the world.
Our approach to neurodiverse couples counselling is affirming, respectful, and grounded in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). Rather than trying to change who you are, we help each partner better understand the other's emotional world, communication style, and attachment needs. Together, we work towards creating greater emotional safety, trust, and connection.
Whether you're seeking ADHD couples counselling, autism relationship counselling, or support for a neurodiverse relationship, we provide a space where both partners feel heard, valued, and understood. You don't need to mask or become someone you're not. Our goal is to help you build a relationship that honours both partners and works for your unique strengths and differences.
If you're looking for compassionate neurodiverse couples therapy in NSW, we'd love to walk alongside you.
Listen to Margot Alexis and Jacque Hanchett speak about the importance of self-care in a neuro-diverse relationship. For more episodes https://www.healingcassandra.com/podcast
Listen to Meditation for Neuro-typical Wives Suffering with Cassandra Syndrome, Mark Hutten M.A.
Contact Robin or Adrian at Counselling Solution, Forster on 0421 224 070 or 0401 125 175 to support you on your journey to wholeness.
Further reading
Ariel, C. (2012). Loving someone with Asperger's syndrome: Understanding and connecting with your partner. Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications, Inc.
Aston, M., (2004). Aspergers in Love. Jessica Kingsley Publishers.
Aston, M. (2009). The Asperger couple's workbook: practical advice and activities for couples and counsellors. Philadelphia, PA: Jessica Kingsley Publishers.
Aston, M. (2014). The other half of Asperger syndrome (autism spectrum disorder): A guide to living in an intimate relationship with a partner who is on the autism spectrum (2nd ed.). Philadelphia, PA: Jessica Kingsley Publishers.
Attwood, T., and Garnett, M. Couples, Autism and Physical Intimacy. https://attwoodandgarnettevents.com/couples-autism-and-physical-intimacy-by-tony-attwood-and-michelle-garnett/
Bahron-Cohen, S. (2008). Autism, Hypersystemizing, and Truth. The Quarterly Journal of Experimental Psychology. 61 (1), 64–75
Brown, K. (2023). Cassandra Syndrome Causes Anger, Frustration in Autism Relationships. In Psychiatrist.comhttps://www.psychiatrist.com/news/cassandra-syndrome-causes-anger-frustration-in-autism-relationships/
Charlie Health. (2023). What is Masking? https://www.charliehealth.com/post/what-is-masking
Hutten, M. Meditation for Neurotypical Wives Suffering with Cassandra Syndrome. https://youtu.be/w4j9RfyLWYk
Hutten, M. The Typical Backstory of Cassandra Syndrome: Message to ASD Spouses. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TS9H_l5PV_A
Moreno, S., Wheeler, M., and Parkinson, K. (2012). The partner's guide to Asperger syndrome. Philadelphia, PA: Jessica Kingsley Publishers.
Peters, T. & Peters, L. (2016). Our socially awkward marriage: Stories from an Asperger's relationship. Tulsa, OK: Brookside Press.
Roberson, K. (2023) in Cassandra Syndrome Causes Anger, Frustration in Autism Relationships. In Psychiatrist.comhttps://www.psychiatrist.com/news/cassandra-syndrome-causes-anger-frustration-in-autism-relationships/
Rowlands, K. (2017). Walking on eggshells: Confessions from an Asperger marriage and how we made it work. Northumberland, England: Old Tavern House.
Wheeler, M. (2024). Tips for Women in Relationships with Partners on the Autism Spectrum. Indiana Institute on Disability and community.